Ok...so what is with people who are high maintenence? I know that sometimes I have a glimmer of that in my own personality...but definitely not to the extreme!
If you have committed to a group activity and can't stand to try and move things around, and do things differently for 2 days...there's gotta be something wrong. You have to know that when you're planning something with more than just one other person that there needs to be compromise! You might have to bring things to work with you and come directly to meet up with people for the weekend instead of biking or walking to work. You might have to grab something to eat on the way out of town if dinner isn't going to be provided and you don't have time to go home. You might have to cancel plans you made Saturday night in order to be true to your commitment to the group.
I've decided, for this reason I don't really like organizing big group activities! And you know what? With this one, I even purposely arranged everything to be super low key...but when you're dealing with driving 3 hours out of town, you kind of need to arrange a leaving time and a coming home time! That's just the way it works! Arrrgh! The purpose of this trip is to get to know some new people...well I think I know this woman well enough to say I don't think I could stand being in a car with her for 3 hours let alone spend all day Saturday with her!
Hahahaha...I know this is all really judgemental...I'm really just saying this because I'm frustrated, and might have yet another person drop out from coming...SUCKS!
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